Are You A Goal Digger?

I Am!

Happy Wednesday, Golden Divas!

Today is inspirational Wednesday and C50 is offering up some quotes to get you motivated. We all know your vibes attract your tribe, with that being said, it will be a great advantage to have some positive people in your circle of sisterhood. After all, you are what you manifest in this world. Women who strive for the beauty that can be felt and not just seen will encourage you to start your journey now, not tomorrow.

Every woman needs that person to say, “Don’t think, Just Do,’ ‘Girl, take the risk or lose the chance’, and ‘Keep going to achieve all of your goals.’ I’m very thankful that my tribe encourages, uplift, and inspire me to be the best Brenda possible! I hope you ladies have a magnificent tribe too! 

Club Fifty has one question for you. Are you a…

Let’s be clear; I am not talking about ‘GOLD DIGGER‘ (even though my post will be dripping in gold today); you know, the term used to describe someone who seems to be using others for financial gain and opportunity. The ones that strategically match themselves with partners who can contribute to their lives.

No, I’m talking about ‘GOAL DIGGERS,’ a woman who seeks to better her life and the lives of those around them. Women who don’t use people for personal materialistic gain. Divas, you want to surround yourself with other goal diggers because they often serve as a means of inspiration.

Where are my ‘Goal Diggers?’ I know you’re out there! Why, because you’re ambitious and you know what you want out of life, and you’re not afraid to take the risk to get it. You have big dreams, your goals are set daily, and you yearn for aspirations for independence, happiness, and success.

Golden Divas, we dig in, put in the work, get the job done, and move on to our list’s next task.

We get it; it’s a mindset, so we better get our minds right, so we can set our goals for our lives and do what we must to achieve them! Whether it’s our health, career, marriage, motherhood, or education, I know we can do it because we’re ‘GOAL DIGGERS!’

We know our success is worth the complications and obstacles that we may face, but Golden Divas, we are determined to succeed; that’s why we persevere with sweat, blood, and tears to work towards our goals for a better tomorrow for our family and us. 

TIPS FOR A GOAL DIGGER!

• A GOAL DIGGER never stops working towards their goals.
• What have you done to get better today?
• Think of every single move you made in the last 24 hours.
• Was everything geared at taking steps towards your goals?
• Do you have a clear idea as to what your goal is?
• It would be best if you did an honest self-evaluation of where you are right now.
• Then you can focus on shaping (or re-shaping) the path.
• Then once you have your eye on THAT prize, don’t lose sight of it.
• Fight for it! Because we goal diggers, we don’t give up.

DID YOU KNOW?

She is ambitious.
A goal digger has a drive that is much too powerful ever fully to depend on a man. She has a set number of goals to achieve for herself, and often, they will have very little to do with you. While she loves to have support and encouragement from her mate, she’s very clear on defining a life outside of her relationship, which certainly includes personal goals and achievements.

She is thoughtful and considerate when it comes to your pockets.
This is a woman of substance. She doesn’t need you for much of anything outside of love, emotional, mental, physical needs, and support. She will note how you treat her–every woman loves a gentleman–but she won’t depend on your cash to survive and thrive. She will pick up the bill if she finds you worthy, purchase gifts for you, and suggest more thoughtful activities, such as cooking at home and movie nights versus going out and spending money once she feels secure in the relationship.

She motivates you to pursue your personal goals.
A goal digger serves as a natural source of inspiration. No, you don’t necessarily have to match her drive; she will respect where you are in life. But the moment you mention some achievement you’d like to attain, she is on your team. She will want to know how you plan to reach your goal and will be happy to assist.

Goal diggers are excellent, inspirational people because they are indeed great people. Yes, some folks are too self-absorbed to think outside of what they have going on, but, on the other hand, goal diggers always have you and herself in the best interest.  

CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOAL DIGGER

• GOAL DIGGERS most importantly, have respect for themselves. They are not willing to compromise their morals and values just for a dollar or lifestyle. They also want the best things in life, but rather do things themselves rather than feel like a burden to someone.
• GOAL DIGGERS come off to be more attractive. Nothing is more beautiful than to see someone hustle and grind their way to the top. They do not feel a sense of entitlement to anything, and that is what keeps them motivated. When they have a goal, nothing will stop them from achieving that goal or endeavor.
• GOAL DIGGERS have respect for their name. Your name is what people use to identify you. A goal digger does not want their name to be tarnished. They respect their name and family legacy.
  They say, “Birds of the same feather flock together.” Meaning they are surrounded by people who have similar characteristics or similar interests. Their primary focus is to motivate each other, be driven, and to excel in life. You are the company you keep, most of the time, so it is essential to be around people who are always trying to improve themselves and not be complacent.
• GOAL DIGGERS are not worried about “STATUS.” They let their work speak for them, not their wallet. Of course, they are hungry for the next check, but they do not let that define them. They stay humble and keep grinding to be even better than they were before. They know what they have in the bank, so they are not concerned about how many followers they have or who may judge their outfits or appearance.

Again, I ask the question, ladies…

Are you a ‘GOAL DIGGER?’

I know I am!

Sources:
http://madamkoverage.com/2020/04/02/are-you-a-gold-digger-or-goal-digger/
https://www.ebony.com/love-relationships/dating-relationships-goal-digger/#:~:text=The%20new%20term%20%E2%80%9Cgoal%20digger,as%20a%20means%20of%20inspiration.